I hope you enjoy this story, it sure caught my
attention.
This article appeared in Sundays Newsday, written by Ed Lowe told
to him by Maria
An Old Radioman Tuned to the Past
Fourth year medical student Chris Foresto ushered the elderly
man into an examination room in the doctor's office in Buffalo. The file showed
that the man had been suffering from Alzheimer's disease for some time. A
graduate of Chaminade High School in Mineola and of Boston College, Foresto, 26,
was finishing his last rotation of medical school at SUNY Buffalo. He was to
have returned home to Muttontown on Friday and now must wait until March 21 to
learn where he will spend the next stage of his education, as an intern in
radiology. It was my last week, he said by telephone. I'm finishing in an
office in family medicine. As I walked in to see the patient, my preceptor- the
doctor, tells me the guys Alzheimer's is more or less advanced and that it's
probably going to be very difficult for me to talk to him. I'd never seen
the patient before and I wanted to get an idea of how advanced the disease
was.I asked him a few simple questions. I gave him a series of three numbers and
told him I was going to ask him to repeat them to me.
Well, he didn't remember how he had gotten to the
doctor's office and he couldn't give me back the three numbers I had just
given him. So knowing that Alzheimer's disease destroys the short term memory
and not necessaryily the deep past memory, I asked him what kind of things he
had done during his life. He said he worked in electronics his whole life. He
said he was a radio operator in the Navy and an Amateur radio enthusiast.
Foresto hesitated for a minute. In general, he believes
it is not appropriate for him to engage a patient in a discussion of his
personal life, regardless of what he might think he has in common with the
patient, just as he believes it would be inappropriate for him to further
identify this patient to me (and he did not).
However, Foresto shared an interest in radio with his
patient gleaned from the first 10 years of his life when he had the
privilege and honor of being tutored by his Grandfather Paul Panzeca.
Foresto was 10 when his Grandfather died, on Jan. 20
1986. 0ld enough to have been indelibly influenced by the 61 year old man's
passion for Amateur radio.
Panzeca was born in Brooklyn, in 1925. His own
Grandparents lived with him and they spoke only Italian so Panzeca
spoke only Italian until he was 7 years old. One of his daughters, Maria
DeBonis, of Carle Place, recently recalled the stories she had heard about
her father from older family members.
My grandmother would tell us how she would send my
father to bed and then find him underneath it, where he had
stashed all these cigar boxes filled with wires and coils and
tubes. DeBonis said. He was always fascinated by electronics, and more
so, eventually, by radio.
At the age of 15 or 16, to make extra money while
he was still going to school, he would go into he local repair shop and fix
radios for them. He even learned how to fix televisions, and they
were new then. When he was 17, though, he asked his parents for
permission to join the Navy. It was 1942, and at his age, you needed
permission. He knew Morse code, so the Navy assigned him to radio control
rooms. He served in the Pacific. When the war ended, and he came out of the
Navy, he married my mother, Rose Panzeca. Her name was Petito. She
lived across the street from my father.
My father worked for an electrical company
for seven or eight years and went to school at Polytechnical
Institute. He got his degree in Electrical Engineering in 1951.They stayed
in Brooklyn until 1952 or '53 and then moved out to Valley Stream, where my
father opened his own business, P.J. Panzeca Inc. It started in Elmont but
pretty soon there were warehouses all over the Island.It just got bigger and
bigger, until it was a major electrical construction company. We moved into
a big house my father built in Old Westbury. There were four kids: my sister,
Carmel Silk, who now lives with my mother in Westbury; Paula Foresto, of
Muttontown, Chris' mother; my brother, Joseph, who lives in Huntington, and me,
Maria.
'My father was only 61 when he passed,' DeBonis
said. 'But he was a dynamo. He taught us all Morse code when we were kids. He
taught Chris Morse code, too. In the examination room two weeks ago in the
Buffalo doctors office, Foresto decided to reveal to the Alzheimer's patient
that he too, was a radio enthusiast, and that he learned it from his
grandfather, and that his grandfather had been a radio operator in the Navy,
too.
'What was your grandfather's name?' asked the patient.
Foresto answered. 'Paulie Panzeca!" the patient said. 'I remember Paul Panzeca.
He was exactly my age. I knew Paul well!" The patient went on to tell Foresto
that he was 76 years old and had spent his entire life in Buffalo, save for the
time he spent in the Navy. He boasted that he could still "copy" 40 words a
minute in code. He said in his free time, all his life, would listen to the
radio and copy what he heard into code. 'Only military guys can copy that fast,"
he told Foresto. This man couldn't remember what day it was," Foresto said, or
what month or year it was, or what he'd had for breakfast. But memories 60 years
old came pouring out of him. He remembered details about my
grandfather and how fast he could key code. Everybody in the
office was blown away, the doctor I was working with and the nurses
in the office, and the man's wife. The patient was laughing and crying
at the same time. He said I'd made his day. I'd made his week. He
showed emotion you'd never know he was capable of any more. It was
incredible. When I walked out of there, I was weak.
At the game time, Foresto said, it was sad. This
disease is so debilitating. He and his wife are thanking me, and I don't know
how long he is going to remember that we had this conversation, or that he'd had
this experience.